Only post positive comments on social media. Negative comments need to be said face-to-face. What you write on the Internet is etched permanently in people’s thoughts and on database servers.



Give your young kids superhero names for their chores. Super Suds Sally, or Scrub-the-Pot Lancelot. Ignore the snafus and celebrate their success!


When lending an ear to a troubled friend, always ask for permission before giving advice.


Practice positive statements in negative situations. Rather than, “I’m late to the post office,” say, “I’m glad the post office can send this letter for me, either today or tomorrow.”