Leave a treat instead of advice: a thinking-of-you card, a sweet snack, or a light read. People will be encouraged that you’re thinking of them.



If a social network asks for personal information to be shared online, don’t, no matter how much fun it seems. What you share, everyone knows, including hackers. Don’t do it.


Have a family game plan for unexpected injuries. A piece of candy, a bandage, and/or a kiss. Suck, apply pressure, or add a hug. Do it the same every time.


Be mentally and physically present when you talk with people. Multitasking will convey your lack of interest and undermine your connection.